Celebrating Christmas Away from Home
The Philippines is one of the largest sources of migrant labor globally. Millions of Filipino workers work overseas, contributing significantly to the economies of their host countries while simultaneously sending remittances back home. For many of the Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs), migration is not just a choice; it is a necessity driven by economic challenges, lack of opportunities, and the desire to provide a better future for their families.
This phenomenon embodies the Church's teaching on the right to migrate, as articulated in the Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church, which highlights that while individuals have the right to seek better living conditions, host nations also have a responsibility to welcome and integrate migrants.
However, the experience of celebrating Christmas away from home presents a poignant challenge for many OFWs. The festivities are often marked by feelings of nostalgia and longing for family connections. Yet, these workers also create new traditions, finding community among fellow Filipinos in their adoptive countries. They celebrate their cultural heritage through shared meals, music, and Philippine customs, fostering a sense of belonging despite physical distance from their families.
Some of my high school friends who are working abroad shared their thoughts about this bittersweet experience:
Jeng Francisco, 49 years old, who has been working in Hong Kong for 9 years as an all-around helper, states: "I always think positive, but I always tell my family, especially my children and grandchildren, that Christmas is coming, but my physical body is far away; however, my heart is always with you… that the time will come when they will wake up and we’ll be together again… be patient for now. So I make sure that even though I am far away, I should stay connected with all of them and that's how I always update them… I show them that everything is okay, just study, love each other and help each other, and we will take care of everything, even though deep inside I am anxious for them. Faith has been a great help to me because it has always given me strength and protection for everyone, especially to my children and family."
Michelle Magpily, 49 years old, who has been working in Singapore for 18 years as an IT Business Analyst, shared: "As soon as the 'ber' months arrive and I realize that I can't go home, I immediately feel homesick, no matter how long I have lived away from my family. Coping strategies often involve attending pre-Christmas get-togethers and celebrating Christmas with friends who have become like family here in Singapore. If they are not around, I simply stay home and video call my family in the Philippines. The faith I have brings me back to what’s truly important: to celebrate the birth of Christ, no matter where you are. Even if I am physically far from the people I love, my faith helps me find comfort in new traditions, cherish the old ones, and continue growing both in heart and spirit."
For many OFWs, the sacrifices made for their families can be a source of pride and motivation, driving them to work harder even as they endure the pain of separation. The emotional turbulence of missing significant family moments, such as Christmas celebrations, is offset by the hope that their efforts will lead to better opportunities for their loved ones back home.
Having a strong faith and embracing hope and joy during this festive season are essential for our kababayans as they navigate the challenges of being away from home. These values provide a comforting anchor amidst the trials of separation and longing. Faith instills a sense of purpose and connection to family, reminding them that their sacrifices are meaningful and contribute to a brighter future for their loved ones. Hope inspires resilience, allowing them to envision a joyous reunion and a fulfilling life built on their hard work and dedication.
"But the angel said to them, 'Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord.'" – Luke 2:10-11
This powerful message of hope and joy highlights the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, who brings peace to humanity. For our fellow Pinoys abroad, especially during Christmas, this message resonates deeply, as they often feel the pain of separation from their families while striving to support them.
The comforting message, “Do not be afraid,” reassures them that they are not alone despite the distance. The birth of Christ symbolizes hope, persuading them to find joy in their sacrifices, which serve their families' well-being. The declaration that this joy is for "all people" encourages them to celebrate their family's unity in spirit, even from afar. By embracing the true meaning of Christmas, they forge connections with fellow Filipinos and other nationalities, fostering a sense of community and belonging that transcends borders. Acts of kindness, shared prayers, and cultural celebrations remind OFWs that the spirit of Christmas is alive within them, enabling them to create a festive atmosphere even in unfamiliar surroundings. Through these powerful virtues, our kababayans can tap into the essence of Christmas, discovering joy, peace, and connection that unites them with their families, infusing their hearts with strength and hope as they navigate the holiday season away from home.


